Source: http://www.3dcom.com/couples/justify.html

What is this trend to define or justify ourselves by what it is we do not do? Not only do crossdressers succumb to this technique, but so do wives and partners. Where is the positive aspect in saying something akin to, "Well, sure I may be a compulsive gambler, but at least I´m not a drug addict?" Or, take for example, "Yes, my husband is a crossdresser, it´s okay with me, at least he doesn´t abuse me." Wait a minute, I think I missed something here. Let me try to put this in math terms, now if A=B, and B has nothing to do with C, then can A possibly be equal to C? I don´t think so.